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A girl who cries all the time because of her motherâs death
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Q: I have a girlfriend. His mother is dead. She cries all the time. What should he actually do?
A girl who cries all the time because of her motherâs death
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Alhamdulillah.
No one can escape from the trouble of death. Death is a test for us. May we do good deeds, make our deeds beautiful. So that we get a good reward, may Allah be pleased with us. Being burdened with grief over the death of a close relative, crying is permissible; If it is natural; It does not involve yelling, screaming or displeasure with Allah. The Prophet himself wept over the death of his son Ibrahim. He said: âThe eyes are shedding tears, the mind is heavy. But we will only utter that which pleases our Lord. Ibrahim! We are saddened by your death.â [Sahih Bukhari (1220) and Sahih Muslim (4279)]
ButâĻ this crying and sadness should be limited. So that the welfare of the person in this world and hereafter is not destroyed. Crying should not interfere with his own work, responsibilities and obedience to Allah. Rather, his duty will be to be patient and digest hardships; So that he can attain the good fortune of being patient, his sins are forgiven and his status is elevated.
The advice for your girlfriend is that she should focus on her studies, reciting the Quran, playing sports at a permissible level in order to forget about this problem. Asking Allah for refuge from anxiety and depression. Donât be lonely and isolated. Because Satan will be able to dominate him if he is alone.
He should know that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) forbade women to mourn the dead for more than three days. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: âMourning a dead person for more than three days is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Hereafter. But the woman will mourn for her husband for 4 months and 10 days.â [Sahih Bukhari (1280) and Sahih Muslim (1486)]
Therefore, it is not permissible for a woman to spend more than three days without adornment in mourning because of someoneâs death. However, if the husband dies, the wife will leave the decoration during the entire period of Iddat.
We pray to Allah Taâala to grant him patience and use him in the path of obedience to Him.
Allah knows best.
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